Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over,
it became a butterfly.
— Anonymous
If you’ve experienced a loss, perhaps the death of a friend/partner, a relationship, or even a pet, remember to celebrate in memory the joy and happiness that was brought to your life from having him or her in it.
We can’t change the cycle of life, but we can change our perspective. Instead of focusing on just that sorrowful ending, look back to the happy days and let those feelings envelop and embrace you.
You’ll know you’ve succeeded when you find yourself smiling.
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The I Am 
A wonderful message Michael .. I remember talking my Dad over as he took his transition.. He fought to stay with us with each breath, until I said its Ok Dad to let us go. I watched him transform from his own cocooned body into that Butterfly.. And saw the pain on his face turn into Peace..
So many think death is the end, when in fact it is only just the beginning.. Many thanks for sharing… And I am sure your friend will focus on the Wonderful times and not the sad ones…
Bless you for sharing.
Sue
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Thank you, Sue.
Isn’t it a gift in that final moment when we see someone’s face turn to pure peace, rather than that pain they’ve carried, when they finally move on?
I can’t speak to the cliché, “they’re in a much better place now,” but their departing from a physical body, especially one wracked with pain, is certainly peaceful.
I do have a friend experiencing a couple losses, but I also posted this for everyone in my corner of humanity here on WP. We’re all friends in this life. We just haven’t met everyone yet.
Peace to you.
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I totally agree both in it being a ‘Gift’ and that we all are friends, even the ones we have yet to meet.. 🙂 Sending Peace back.. 🙂
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What a wonderful and considerate friend you are.
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🙂
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Great message Michael. You are just a joy!
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Thanks, Cheryl! 🙂
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This is what I’ve been trying to focus on lately as I spend these last few weeks with my terminally ill dog and companion. Trying to stay focussed on the joyful parts 🙂
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It is difficult to switch gears in our thoughts, Eliza. I think we tend to focus on the vacancy in our lives (and in our hearts) when we lose anyone. Especially with pets because, in a human lifetime, we can lose many.
I remember growing up with lots of pets…dogs and cats (and even two turkeys). And, unfortunately, we lost many to accidents, diseases and old age. Looking back, though, they were all like play pals to me. Such wonderful memories.
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Indeed, I am grateful for my four-legged friends, they have added so much love and joy to my life. We reminisce about them often, recalling funny stories or admiring their strength and faithfulness. Earth angels 🙂
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Thank you for that reminder!
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You’re welcome. 🙂
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Thank you for this. Just lost someone. This is a blessing to find.
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You’re welcome. Many blessings for you.
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You’ll know you’ve succeeded when you find yourself smiling. Yes, this is true. 🙂
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Thank you, Nishita.
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You’re Welcome. 🙂
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Fantastic post
Best wishes to you,
Aquileana 😀
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Thanks, Aquileana.
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